With my career expanding 25 years specialising in Change, Coaching, Learning and Development, and my own life’s experiences I can guide and coach you truly commit to yourself, making choices confidently, courageously taking positive action, boldly being the best version of you and living in heart with love and compassion!

Qualifications

• Prosci Change Practitioner
• Graduate Certificate of Applied Coaching
• Certificate IV Training and Assessment
• Serenity Vibration Healing and Enlightenment technique – Level 1 & 2 Practitioner
• DNA 2 & Core Belief Reprogramming Practitioner
• Theta Command and Quantum Level Reprogramming Practitioner
• Stamford Cultivating Compassion Training
• Sound Healing Practitioner
• Yoga Teacher Accreditation
• Certificate Diploma in Ayurveda Massage

I reflect on my life and see all the choices I made, as a desperate young woman to be seen and heard, valued for who I was, clinging to any resemblance of appreciation I could get from anyone, putting myself, my feelings out of the picture, thinking I was strong and yet at the same time playing the role of the victim, not that I would have known or understood this at the time.  If I can make others happy then I will be happy, but I wasn’t, as a 27-year-old woman, married and convincing myself that I was making the right choice, my husband had potential, he was talented and amazing and if I stick with him some of his light will shine on me and I will be as good as him and we will have a future together.  I could see a potential, but actually I missed the reality of the moment, I was young, my husband was young and we were both as insecure as one another without the tools and experience to know how to communicate and support one another on our journeys – we were doomed as a relationship.

The inevitable occurred, we fell apart, and there I was stepping into a new phase of life as a young mother of one incredible daughter.

And there, blossomed deep love and my desire to be the best I could and be everything I wanted to be – the perfect mother, daughter and woman who could achieve all her dreams and be looked up to.  If I worked hard enough of course it would happen and then I would be deserving of happiness and what I imaged would be my perfect life.

But here is the trouble, I carried with me my energy of I am not deserving, my thoughts of self-judgment and doubt, my feelings of I am not good enough, and self-loathing of my physical body and who I was and belief that I was a failure. All this was my weight of life I carried around with me in every moment, even in moments when little glimmers of light would creep out and expose their existence, I stopped it short from becoming a massive beautiful beam of light that could grow and expand coming from the core of me, not allowing anyone else to see my light, not even myself – fearful of my light’s power, it would be too much for me and the world and it will all be a disappointing and disastrous failure, not to be trusted.

Oh, the deep quiet anger I felt building underneath all of my - “It didn’t turn out the way I wanted it too” – struggling to be an actor in a world where you are told on a daily basis “No” you are not right, you’re not good enough for the part. I walked right into life holding a mirror for me to stare into myself and confront the limitations I had put on myself, work through and shake off the redundant weight of life that was no longer my friend, instead, I went the opposite direction and dove deep into the darkness, avoiding the mirror of self-reflection.

I was completely broken and shattered by life when I experienced one of the deep loves of my life, I thought this was my ‘Happy ever after moment’ I deserved this love and joy, now was my time with the right man for me, but the wrong time for him. I am forever grateful for the experience now, however at the time it took me years to recover spinning off into a world of mis-aligned choices and taking me away from my light of who I truly am.

I now understand we choose our experiences for this life, our lessons to learn and grow – well why would we chose such loss. At the time I didn’t understand that loss can be a catalyst for change, out of darkness comes light. Well, I couldn’t see that and emerged myself into a world of darkness, another unhealthy relationship, a loss of self, who I was, what was I to do and I withdrew from a world of seeing the good in myself and others. My world was a world filled with self-doubt and limiting beliefs.  Sure, I continued to exist, managing my role as a mother and the person people expected me to be and yet most people would not have known the depth of despair, self-annihilation and depression I was in.

But, for the same reason as you, sitting here now reading my story, I, from deep within always sensed there is more to this life and I will not settle. An unknown truth to me, at that time, I would not have been able to name or understand, but never the less, it was there deep within in and slow but surely, I began to find my light again.

Over that time and for many years I have sought and found mentors who have softly, firmly and boldly guided me on my journey of self-discovering. How grateful I am to myself, my teachers and journey we shared. All of them willing committed their energy and time to helping me be my very best self, in a place of self-acceptance and wiliness to continue to look into my soul, evolve and ever-change from this moment forward.

My life now, I can truly say is filled with joy, sure there are always challenges I need to work through but now I have the tools, skills and awareness to do so and ‘Live in Heart’.

And that is why I am here for you, Kim xxx